I can't get in the comment section, so I'll comment on Diane's blogg with my own blogg.
Diane, there is a wide difference between Religion and Christianity. It is quite evident than many folks who 'profess' Christianity, may be religious but their idea of Christ's teachings and examples of service don't match what your Sunday School teacher tried teaching you about love, and especially God's Love.
Jesus, himself declared that He didn't come into this world to judge the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. He didn't pay much heed to the laws, rules, and regulations of the established Jewish leaders of the day. He, in fact pointed out to those leaders and the people that rules and laws were not the answer. Strict obedience to rules and laws could not give man eternal access to God's presence, because man simply could not or would not obey them all.
A simple faith, like that of a child, in God's Grace will enable us to quit worrying about damnation and start giving, as Jesus did, to the needs of our fellow man. God doesn't condemn man, man condemns himself. If Jesus told those who were doing wrong that it wasn't up to him to judge them, why do we think God depends on us to judge the salvation of our fellow man?
The true Christian Theology is impossible to present in a blogg on the internet. But a starting point is to advise everyone to quite listening to the advocates of rules and laws to facilitate a loving relationship with our fellow man and with God. That doesn't mean that sin and hell are not real. It does mean that we must accept, whether we can absolutely explain why or not, that Christ paid the penalty prescribed by law for our wrong doing and try emulating Christ's example of love and compassion for both saint and sinner alike.
Man has to enforce civil laws to protect ourselves from one another. But those laws can't or won't guarantee us a relationship with God.
It is most unfortunate that man's bigotry, greed, and hate, in the name of Christ, has turned many people away from Christianity.